I guess I’m old fashioned but if that is one of the most important skills for a man on the internet I think there’s something wrong with the man. I’d suggest stepping outside into the light of day to meet women in real life. They actually breathe, talk and if you’re lucky, smile. Online you don’t even know if you’re talking to a woman as Loborn demonstrated to everyone on Xanga for years. People thought they were talking to an Asian sports model. They were talking to a balding middle-aged man.