No! I had my boss come on line once on another system and he tried to trick me into doing something I wasn’t supposed to according to my contract. I came out okay but what if it had gone another way? The best thing in the world to do is leave home at home and work at work. Oh you can go out to coffee, visit each others family’s, but before you put something on line that he/she MIGHT could read and approve or disapprove best just not to friend them. In fact, if I thought he was even on Facebook I would use a pseudonymn. Xanga is a bit different, although he could read something I would rather he not know, it would probably be in the comment section and for him to spend hours trying to find something chances are 1 in 100,000.