Sleeping With a Guy, Rape and Sex

It depends on the situation.  Getting into bed with someone you know has feelings for you is a bad idea.  But if you’ve been friends forever or whatever, it’s really not that weird.
I’ve shared a bed with a guy on three occasions.  Once was because neither of us had anywhere else to sleep.  Nothing happened. (well, actually, it was more like we slept on the floor and shared a blanket, but same thing…)  Once, I got drunk with my crush and his friends and the four of us slept in one bed together, which is not exactly unusual in this culture.  I didn’t think any of them would make a move on me, especially not in front of each other.  Besides, four people in a double bed is hard enough to manage without anyone trying to have sex.  So nothing happened then, either. The other time, I got sick at a party, and the host said I could lie down until I felt better.  He knew I was sick.  He was the one holding my hair back.  You’d think I’d be too disgusting to be a turn on to anyone at that point.  Wrong.  He kept making advances at me, even though I continually said no.  He didn’t rape me, but his insistence even after I said no repeatedly, really creeped me out.  I should have asked someone to take me home as soon as I started feeling poorly. But I never thought anyone would try to do that when I was obviously sick…

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